Immortal Weddings

Ear Gauge Bling

2012-01-10T17:40:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Although we can't be definite of the origin of ear gauges, people have been enlarging their ear piercings for hundreds, possibly thousands, of years. Regardless of what it symbolizes, many people have done it these days as a fashion statement.

However, what do you do with these larges holes on your wedding day?

Luckily NewSteel has some options. Besides their online store, they also have kiosks at Oshawa Centre, Vaughan Mills, Square One and Devonshire Mall. Their plugs and tunnels come with cubic zirconias and gems and can make an elegant alternative to your spacers.

From 8ga to 00ga and prices under $20, you can't go wrong.

Check these out...

~Photos courtesy of www.shopnewsteel.c,om

Now that's casually elegant!

getting hitched MAD MEN style

2012-01-02T14:30:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Nothing beats the 1960's style of the Mad Men cast. Here is what I picture a Don Draper-esque wedding to look like....

Starting with the women:

www.fashionhousevintage.com

The bride can wear a very simple white dress. Nothing too fancy and very easy to accessorize. The jewellery would surely be pearls...necklace and earrings. Make-up will be very minimal with bright red lips. The hair- pulled back in tight up-do.

www.liverpoolecho.co.uk

www.luellajune.com

The bridesmaids can wear different dresses expressive of their own individual styles.

The men:

www.xerposa.com
Very slick, parted hair wearing simple grey suits with a black tie. Who says the men can't have accessories? At their seats, they surely have to have briefcases and maybe they can carry around the women's stuff for a change?...lol! And of course, they have to have fedoras.

Decor:
Straight edge, business type of furniture and the accent lighting can be desk lamps. Velvet lounge chairs and couches. Another accent, glass ashtrays. Regardless of whether or not you smoke, everyone in Mad Men is a smoker so it just adds to the ambiance.

www.thebeehiveblog.net

Music:
Surely play everything from the Beatles, Petula Clark's Downtown, The Temptations, Diana Ross and The Supremes, The Doors, and Jimi Hendrix. And, of course, for the entrance- A Beautiful Mine by RJD2.

Drinks:
Can't have a Mad Men environment without the infamous whiskey on the rocks

www.stockfoodmotion.com

and of course, the infamous Manhattan...

www.mommysfabulous.com

And last, but certainly not least, you have to play up on the concept of ads. From invitations, to programs to the guestbook, make it look like an ad out of a magazine.

If you or someone you know wants to play up on this theme, contact me. Until then....stay mad!

Bad-ass Kicks for a Bad-ass Bride!

2011-11-03T12:28:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

I was first introduced to Iron Fist clothing in November 2010. I saw a woman wearing a bright dress amongst a group of women wearing all black. But it wasn't her dress that caught my eyes, it was her shoes. She had on a pair of heels with a design that was very reminiscent of a tattoo design. I loved it! Unfortunately, I am ashamed to say that I have yet to purchase my first item from Iron Fist.

Here are some of my favourite pairs of heels that would be perfect for a fearless bride.

"Bowed Over Platform"

"American Nightmare Platform"

"Lacey Days Pointed-toe Platform"

"Meshed Up Platform"

~all images courtesy of www.ironfistclothing.com
Iron Fist also has clothing and accessories for men and kids. They actually started in 2001 with just mens clothing but realized that designing for ladies would be a hit as well. I am also a fan of their slogan, "made with love for a Heartless World..." Great clothing for those who just couldn't care less about what others are doing.

Too Hot for Guests Engagement Pictures

2011-10-26T19:39:00.000-07:00

~written by: Cendi Micor

Although boudoir photo shoots have been around for many years, they aren't exactly the type of photos you see often. Why? Well, they are quite intimate and aren't exactly the type of images to be shared with your next door neighbour or your grandparents.

www.marlenjames.com

As nice as engagement photos are to have displayed during wedding receptions, not every couple enjoys doing them and while they can be awkward to pose for, why not make it even more awkward by doing a couples boudoir photo shoot...ha! This is a great option to really caption the newlywed spark and have images that only you and your fiance can share.

Marlen James is great with these photos. She has a studio in Toronto and has the perfect personality to get you to loosen up and get in touch with your inner sexy. She's a total goof sometimes and is tons of fun! Contact her at mj@marlenjames.com for more info.

**keep posted for details on a special project we have in the works**

The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo clothing

2011-10-26T12:46:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

www.hm.com

H&M has collaborated with the designer for The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo, Trish Summerville, to create a clothing line based around Lisbeth Salander. Lisbeth Salander is the heroin, played by Rooney Mara, who is a misunderstood woman who has survived abuse and rape.

The clothing line with minimal colour and lots of black is due to appear in stores on December 14, 2011 and is surely a collection that non-fashionistas like myself, can appreciate as it appeals to those who rally for a grunge, laid-back feel.

THE CROW

2011-05-23T19:41:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Just a quick post on one of my favourite movies, "The Crow" which is worthy of a mention. Eric Draven (played by Brandon Lee) displays his eternal love for his murdered fiance by returning from the dead to seek revenge.

~Photo courtesy of www.filmpopper.com
I love so much about this movie...the Halloween reference, the music, the crow, the quotes from Edgar Allan Poe's poem "The Raven" and the story of the couple so deeply in love. Ironic that Brandon Lee died during the filming of this film and that it was 3 weeks before he was to be married. Incredibly sad but glad he left us with such an amazing film.

~Photo courtesy of www.retrojunk.com
"Buildings burn, people die but real love lasts forever..." ending line before credits of The Crow.

An Ode to the Iconic ELIZABETH TAYLOR

2011-03-23T20:11:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

~Photo courtesy of www.movieeye.com

Today, many mourned the loss of a beautiful woman. Elizabeth Taylor died today at the age of 79. She was not only known for her beauty...she was also a talented actress, had her own perfume and well known for her violet eyes. Another thing about her was the fact that she had been married numerous times. Of her eight weddings (two of which were to Richard Burton), her are my favourites looks....

~Photos courtesy of www.glamour.com

Surprisingly, these were both of her weddings to Richard Burton.

~Photo courtesy of www.glamour.com

This dress was not during a real wedding. It was what she wore in the original Father of The Bride movie.

She will always be remembered. May she rest in peace...

~Photo courtesy of www.eonline.com

A Vendor that ROCKS!!!!- NIGHT DAY PRODUCTIONS

2011-03-21T13:46:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

~Photo courtesy of www.nightdayproductions.blogspot.com

I had an amazing meeting with Nishi from Night Day Productions (NISHI is Sanskrit for "Night" and DIAS is Portuguese for "Day"), and we discussed the importance of capturing special moments through Video. Not everyone is keen on having a Videographer, especially during the “round-table” greetings, but if done the correct way, it is a vital part of keeping your wedding memories. As Nishi thought-provokingly put it during our interview, “how much would you pay to be able to watch your grandparents get married?” I would love to show my video to my daughter, I can only imagine how emotional it would be to show it to her children.

Nishi has been a video editor since 2000; she did everything from rock concerts to lifestyle TV pilots. In 2005, she started shooting weddings with a small team of videographers. So rather than just Nishi editing, she now had a production team. Once the demand increased, she added some photographers to the mix. As Nishi explained, “We're structured differently from most wedding videographers, in that we're not a one-man or one-woman show. Each crew member has a very specific role: Producer, Editor, Videographer, Photographer. A lot of times, with wedding videographers, you'll get the same person shooting and editing a wedding and there's nothing wrong with that. However, outside of the wedding industry, in production, you tend to get people who specialize in either one or the other. In my experience, shooting and editing are two very different disciplines that require different skill sets and even different personalities and temperaments: videographers (shooters) are more extroverted, physical and outgoing. Editors are incredibly detail-oriented and patient and don't mind the long hours in a dark studio tweaking footage until it is just perfect”

They proudly achieved Wedding Wire’s Bride’s Choice for Videography in 2010 and 2011

Wedding Video by Night Day Productions from Nishi Dias on Vimeo.

Their next project is that they will be tackling live web streaming so that it will be possible to broadcast your wedding live on the Internet as it happens…perfect for family abroad. They are also gay-friendly.

Nishi really educates her clients about what’s involved in producing a good wedding video and it costs what it costs. She appreciates couples on a budget, but at the same time, this is a lot of misinformation of what makes “guys with cameras” professional. You can find many articles on the subject on her site www.NightDayWeddings.com

LADY GAGA at the Air Canada Centre

2011-03-04T13:18:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Photo courtesy of www.buytorontotickets.ca

Last night, I had the privilege to attend one of the many shows of the Monster Ball Tour. Lady Gaga had literally flown straight from Paris (where she did a Fashion Show) to do her concert in Toronto. Yes, she was a tad late starting, but totally worth the wait because not only did she perform for 2.5 hrs, she also did it straight with no intermission.

Photo courtesy of www.almostmarried.ca/wordpress

EVERYONE knows Lady Gaga…you may not like her or her music, but you know her! She has inspired many and one little girl in particular is Maria Aragon, a ten year old girl who sang Gaga’s song “Born This Way” on You Tube. She played the keyboard while singing and if you haven’t seen it, I recommend you do so http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xG0wi1m-89o Gaga flew Maria in from Winnipeg to perform the song (twice) on stage-the ballad version and the radio version. It was very touching and had many in tears.

Gaga was extremely interactive with her fans and even made a phone call to one of the fans during the show and invited him out for drinks after. She is also a huge activist for Gay & Lesbian movements and believes strongly in being whoever you are, no matter what society, your family or friends think. This was evident in the hundreds of fans who dressed up and were completely uncensored. She even threw herself into the crowd (even though she wasn’t supposed to…lol!) and did a bit of body surfing. The security guards loved that!!

This was one of the best concerts I have been to because it was absolutely like NO OTHER. She even had a “Monster” on stage, had people appear to eat her and she re-appeared covered in blood. And her outfits, as expected, were absolutely bizarre and “out-there”. The show was surely an “adult” show but the fans ranged from age 7-70 years old.

Photo taken by Cendi Micor

If you are a “Little Monster” (as Gaga puts it), you will “put your paws up” for her and support her regardless of what outsiders think.

We can all learn from Lady Gaga and embrace our true selves for who we really are because, as she stated many times, we were born this way.

CONTEST TIME-Courtesy of Destination Weddings & Honeymoons Magazine

2011-02-24T12:08:00.000-08:00

Click on the link below to enter for a chance to win a Dream Wedding at Atlantis Paradise Island in Bahamas.
**please note that only US Residents are eligible

http://www.destinationweddingmag.com/contests/enter-your-chance-win-atlantis-ultimate-wedding-giveaway

~Photo courtesy of www.destinationweddingmag.com

THIS WOULD INCREDIBLE AS A WEDDING DRESS...love it!

2011-02-14T08:03:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

For those of you who know me, you know that I am by no means at all a fan of Rihanna. However, I was totally in love with her dress last night at the Grammys. During her performance with Eminem, she wore this....

Photo courtesy of www.ultimate-rihanna.com

Photo courtesy of www.rapfix.mtv.com

If I could have another wedding, I would seriously wear something like that. Or maybe my 10 year anniversary...maybe to renew our vows. Or, even better, any brides planning to wear something like this? If so, I'd love to hear about your plans...

FINGER ELEVEN at the Queen Elizabeth Theatre

2011-01-24T10:03:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Finger Eleven's latest album "Life Turns Electric" is amazing and I saw them on January 22, 2011 at the Queen Elizabeth Theatre.

~Photo courtesy of www.topfloormusic.com

The venue was awesome in terms of the layout...very intimate and easy to locate your seats. Bathrooms were clean and I would most definitely go there again.

Scott Anderson shaved his head again and he was, as always, on point with his vocals. Still, one of my favourite bands to see live!!!!!!! Best songs of the night: "Drag You Down" & "First Time"...I was a little upset that they didn't play "Absent Elements" but overall, AMAZING CONCERT! Finger Eleven has never disappointed me...

IN LIEU OF FAVOURS-DONATIONS

2011-01-17T09:03:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

I had a wonderful, blessed holiday season and realized just how lucky I am. All material things aside, I am blessed with an amazing family and great friends who are all healthy. I began to give constant thought to finding an outlet to give back somehow to those less fortunate.

Coincidentally enough, Katie Schulz contacted me with a wonderful opportunity. In lieu of favours, why not donate to Cystic Fibrosis Canada? This is not a new concept but since her daughter is suffering from this disease, it is one that I can relate to as a mother of a young child. I could not begin to imagine what it is like and feel there is always room to give back. Couples can provide place cards letting their guests know where a donation has been made. Here is a sample:

For more information, please feel free to contact Katie Schulz mrskatieschulz@gmail.com

I truly believe that everything happens for a reason and that certain people come into your life for a reason as well. I hope to help Katie's daughter, Sophia, and all those who suffer from this disease.

Wedding Band...WHY the left ring finger??

2011-01-13T13:50:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Ever wonder WHY we wear engagement ring and wedding band on the ring finger of our left hand? Ever wonder WHY we wear the wedding band below our engagement ring when we actually get that AFTER the engagement ring?

~Photo courtesy of www.pricescope.com

In North America and the UK, the origin of wearing it on your left ring finger came from Ancient Egypt and Romans. It was believed that there is a vein in that finger leading directly to your heart. This vein is known as “vena amoris” , meaning “vein of love”. In England, it was on the ring finger because the groom would slide it partway up the thumb, index finger and middle finger while saying, “In the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit”…then place it on the ring finger.

However, in Europe, many cultures wear it on the right ring finger. Some cultures wear it on the left hand when engaged, then switch it to the right when married. Some cultures wear it on the index finger.

As for wearing the wedding band below the engagement ring, some say it is because it is closest to your heart. Regardless…it should come down to your preference.

~Photo courtesy of www.my-weddingdream.com

Where and how do you wear your rings?

Singapore Brides- 1000 ROSES

2010-12-14T08:01:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

I ABSOLUTELY love this shoot which was done for SingaporeBrides.com. Zhang Jingna, was the talent behind this and was not only the Art Director but also the Photographer. She took the approach of making a dark, yet extremely elegant scene with models Julia Valimaki, Sasha Luss and Zivile Cibaite. The dark roses were able to fill an 18-foot wide backdrop.

~All photos courtesy of www.zhangjingna.com~

This is an absolutely brilliant shoot and I will definitely be following Zhang Jingna’s work. Check out her site http://zhangjingna.com/

Memorial Diamonds

2010-11-23T15:29:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

There is no doubt that we cherish the idea of a memory being forever…immortal…everlasting. However, what about preserving someone’s memory by creating a “memorial diamond”? It is not a new concept but definitely, one that I, only recently heard of. Diamonds, made from human or animal hair and also from ashes. Could you imagine having a piece of a loved one you lost (literally) and having it made into a diamond you could wear around with you? Creepy? Maybe, just a tad. Especially the ones made from ashes? What do you think?

How does this work? The hair contains carbon and once that is extracted, it is combined with high pressurized heat and placed in a diamond synthesis press. They are apparently considered genuine diamonds, since they have the same characteristics of mined diamonds.

Life Gem was the world's first company to offer synthesized memorial diamonds but some other places to purchase them include the U.K., Russia and Switzerland.

~images courtesy of www.lifegem.com

Would you ever consider having an engagement ring made this way? Definitely someone to think about….

IT'S BACK!! The Kleinfeld Experience Contest

2010-11-16T08:59:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

~images courtesy of www.ringbearer.ca

Calling all brides-to-be: Here is your chance to WIN the KLEINFELD EXPERIENCE!! Courtesy of The Ring Bearer. ENTER NOW for this once in a lifetime opportunity by visiting http://www.theringbearer.ca/kleinfeld

Celebrity Wedding Spotlight- EDDIE!!!!!!!

2010-11-15T07:58:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

This post is long overdue but still a must to share.

~Photo courtesy of www.people.com

Pearl Jam's lead man Eddie Vedder and long-time model girlfriend, Jill McCormick, tied the knot on September 18, 2010 in Hawaii. They already have 2 daughters together. It was an intimate affair of approximately 70 guests. The couple got engaged less than a year ago-he proposed to her after a Tribute Concert to Bruce Springsteen at the Kennedy Center in Washington.

~Photo courtesy of www.koolbollywood.com

This just goes to show that even the coolest of the cool get hitched...LOL!

Vendor Spotlight: A L M O S T M A R R I E D

2010-10-19T08:51:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Are you looking for a photographer? I am ecstatic to announce the launch of “Almost Married”.

Ciji and Jonathan have a real passion for capturing moments through the eyes of a camera lens. Located in Pickering, they serve throughout the GTA and surrounding area. Individually, each of them had a knack for capturing details and never attended an event without a camera. What started as a hobby for family and friends, quickly turned into a business as referrals became overwhelming. Having the pleasure to work alongside them, it is evident to see how much they enjoy their work and clients love their easy-going, yet professional personalities.

In honour of their launch, they currently have an amazing promotion!!!!!

Follow them on Twitter @_AlmostMarried and “Like” them on Facebook http://www.facebook.com/pages/Almost-Married/147795755255856?v=app_4949752878

Vendor Spotlight: THANK YOU CHOCOLATES

2010-09-13T08:45:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

It is my pleasure to introduce the work of Maria, from Thank You Chocolates. She makes gorgeous chocolates from any occasion and creates beautiful Candy Buffets for weddings. She will match it all to your colour scheme and your guests will more than satisfied with her selection.

Over this past weekend, I had pleasure of ordering favours for my best friend’s baby shower and she also created the tags for us, so it was just one less thing I had to worry about. The minute I saw them, I was beyond pleased and I knew that this would not be the last time I would place an order with her.

Thank You Chocolates is located in Ajax, Ontario. I am proud to have a fellow-Durham Vendor who I know will not let clients down and I highly recommend that you contact her for your next event.

You can check her out on Sunday, October 17, 2010 at Carruthers Creek Golf Club in Ajax. (650 Lakeridge Road), from 1-4pm. Admission is FREE and there will be door prizes and a fashion show.

~all photos courtesy of www.thankyouchocolates.ca

Tattoos......Taboo?

2010-09-07T16:13:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

As a bride or groom, it is natural to want to look perfect on your wedding day. But, why are tattoos considered such an “imperfection” by so many people? Do you think this way by hiding your tattoos? I hope not.

~Photo courtesy of www.recycledbride.com

I know some people consider having some type of shawl or cover-up for a Church ceremony. However, think back to your reasons and emotional connections to your tattoos. Are they not part of who you are? If anyone has a problem with them, too bad!

I can understand hiding them sometimes during a first meeting, especially in a business setting. I would never expose them while I work, considering that would be a first impression to all the guests. But hiding them at your OWN wedding?!? Your guests are those closest to you and your fiancé. They should be aware of your taste and style. Be yourself and embrace your ink!

Cake Pops-WONDERFUL TREND FOR A WONDERFUL CAUSE

2010-08-18T11:04:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Be part of an amazing event, tomorrow, August 19, 2010 from 5pm-8pm at T & M Sidewalk Café (1344 Danforth Avenue). Jennifer Borgh (Jennifer Borgh Events) and Robin Wight (Wight Weddings) are selling cake pops ($25 per dozen).

~Photo courtesy of www.thesweetstyle.com

Jennifer had a co-worker whose daughter was diagnosed with leukemia. She would like to raise money to help their family go on vacation or use the funds to aid with her treatment. Regardless, this is an incredible reason to not only help a family but also enjoy scrumptious treats. Pass this on to anyone and everyone you know to help make this a successful event.

~Photo courtesy of www.buttercream.com.au

A Date to Remember....

2010-07-20T11:25:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

I had the pleasure of assisting with a Vow Renewal this past weekend. It was absolutely beautiful…the ceremony was very touching and emotional. As much as a wedding is reason to celebrate, renewing your vows to your spouse is just as much, if not more, of a reason to celebrate.

~Photo courtesy of www.lovetripper.com

However, as nice as it is to have a party that will be much like a wedding, there are a few things you should avoid:

1) Do not invite EVERYONE from your first wedding. There are many people who have touched your lives but it should be an intimate setting with those closest to you.

2) Do not register for gifts. You should be showered with everyone’s love and presence, not gifts. You have established and settled your lives together and should not need material or monetary assistance.

3) It is not necessary to have a bridal party. This avoids giving someone responsibilities in helping with the planning of the event. If you do choose to have one, keep it small.

4) Do not have bachelor/bachelorette parties…pretty self-explanatory!

As a guest, it is not necessary to provide cash, however this is a personal decision.

Here is a quick reminder of Annual Anniversary gifts/symbols:
FIRST YEAR: Paper or Plastic/Clock
SECOND YEAR: Cotton or China
THIRD YEAR: Leather or Crystal/Glass
FOURTH YEAR: Flowers or Linen/Silk
FIFTH YEAR: Wood or Silverware
TENTH YEAR: Tin or Aluminum
TWENTY-FIFTH YEAR: Silver
FIFTIETH YEAR: Gold

Marriage is not always easy and anniversaries are definitely a joyous occasion that deserve to be recognized.

"Get Hitched 2010"

2010-06-28T13:16:00.001-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

~Image courtesy of www.pridetoronto.com

On Sunday, July 4, 2010, come support an amazing event. As part of the Pride Parade in Toronto, you can witness 6 same sex couples (2 from Toronto, 1 from Calgary, 1 from Atlanta, 1 from California and 1 from Chicago) get married on a float.

This event is symbolic of the open-mindedness Toronto exerts and is all possible thanks to the sponsor, Man Crunch and the official Coordinator, Jennifer Dobrijevic of Diva Weddings and Events.

Hope to see you all there!

Midnight Food Station-"Bye Bye Hangover"

2010-06-24T11:53:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

If you are having alcohol at your wedding reception, especially if it is open-bar (which, for your guests' sake,hopefully it is!), you are bound to have many of your guests suffer from a hangover the next morning. Here are a few ideas to help prevent an agonizing morning of headache, nausea and laziness.

POUTINE-It is not “scientifically” proven to prevent or cure a hangover but it is definitely a WELL-KNOWN remedy. It may be the carbs and the fact that it is just overall a heavy dish which provides enzymes something else to break down other than Ethanol.

~Photo courtesy of www.food.sulekha.com

Ethanol creates a dehydrating effect and causes headaches. Why not have some Vitamin Water offered and display them in cocktail glasses? This is great even for your non-drinking guests. Vitamin A, B (especially B6) is depleted by the alcohol, so offer these.

~Photo courtesy of www.thenibble.com

If you have a signature drink, choose liquors that are low in Congeners. This is a by-product of fermentation and adds to the severity of a hangover. Clear liquors such as Vodka and White wine have less congeners than darker ones such as cognac, brandy, etc. Also, don't make the drink too sweet. Sugar intensifies hangovers as well.

Most importantly, ensure that your guests have a proper meal. There is nothing worse than drinking on an empty stomach.

There are many other things you can do to decrease your chances of a hangover but these are a few fun ways to include it into your midnight snacking.

I never drink while on the job but who DOESN'T love a good poutine. Or, if you want, just fries and gravy...yummy! Just remember, happy and SAFE partying!!

The 3 Ts of Planning- TASTE, TRADITIONS AND TRENDS

2010-05-25T15:27:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

When it comes to making decisions about your wedding, there are many things to consider. It all boils down to you and your partner's style and taste. You may also consider traditions that both of your families value. Plus, to make things a bit simpler, you should also take note of current trends, which may make certain items more accessible than obscure ones.

PICKING A DATE : You may have a date that is meaningful to both of your. For example, a dating anniversary. You may also be set on a specific time of year. As for your family, they may have superstitions regarding certain numbers and dates. Lately, it has become very popular to choose a date that is extremely easy to remember. For instance, October 10, 2010 = 10/10/10.

BRIDAL PARTY: The size is the first thing to decide. Do you want it to just be your closest family and friends or do you want to include as many people as possible? Does your family have a say as to whom you choose? Many people are no longer following traditional etiquette in terms of their bridal party. The number of bridesmaids does not have to match the number of groomsmen. There are now best women as opposed to strictly just best men.

~Photo courtesy of www.flickr.com

SHOWER: If you want all of your closest family and friends present, you can choose to have a co-ed shower. Traditionally, if you are not currently living together, you may want to have a gift registry. Traditionally, it should be the bridal party throwing the shower...you can have a potluck or luncheon. One modern trend that is occurring these days is to throw a Stag and Doe, which is essentially, to raise money for the couple.

STAG/STAGETTE: Do you want to go all out with the partying? If so, you may go clubbing, to the strip clubs, and get around in a limo. Traditionally, celebrating your last night as a "single", used to occur the night before the wedding, but this is no longer as common. Nowadays, a weekend getaway is huge...Vegas is a very popular trend.

~Photo courtesy of www.destination360.com

CEREMONY: Will you be exchanging vows in a church? Are there cultural aspects that you would like to include. Traditionally, the couple has their backs towards the guests. Throw a twist into your ceremony and ask your priest/officiant if he/she can stand off to the side on an angle or if you can face your guests. It is very common now to also have the ceremony and reception held at one venue.

FLOWERS: Are you going to include your favourite flower into your bouquet and/or decor? As it is tradition to keep your bouquet, why not have a mixture of both real and fake flowers? As for your bridesmaids and maid of honour, make it different and have them hold a single flower as opposed to a bouquet. Consider what is popular and what is in-season.

~Photo courtesy of www.womensweddingsdresses.com

ATTIRE: How traditional do you want your outfit to be? Do you want to wear a white dress...men, to wear black tuxedos? How will your family feel about it? It has become very acceptable to now add more colour to the bridal gown and the colour black is also now acceptable. The length no longer has to be full-length. Another twist could be to wear coloured pumps.

FOOD: What better time to have your favourite meal than your wedding? Traditionally, dinners are more common but it may suit you and your guests better to have a luncheon. A very popular trend right now is having food stations, giving everyone more of a chance to mingle. Also think about what type of bar you will offer. Plus, your cake...how many tiers and how much detail do you want?

MUSIC: What route are you going to take with your music? A DJ or a band? Traditionally, a receiving line occurs and an introduction to music takes place. Is this something your want? You must also consider how speeches will occur during the event. Are you going to have an MC? A great trend right is to allow guests to request songs on the back of their RSVP cards.

HONEYMOON: Are you more into hot, tropical atmospheres or sight-seeing in Europe? To have a more relaxed approach to your wedding, you can have a mini-moon, which is a small trip prior to your wedding. Traditionally, couples used to depart on the night of their weddings, whereas most couples no longer do this. An extremely huge trend now is the Destination Wedding. This way, you and all your closest family and friends can vacation together.

~Photo courtesy of www.sdweddinginsider.com

No matter what you ultimately decide, make your wedding about what YOU want. Not what you think you're supposed to do based on family opinions, nor what today's society is doing. Stand apart and make it memorable! And enjoy it!!

My FAVE-FIVE Movie Couples

2010-05-11T12:41:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Anyone who knows me, knows that I am a total movie-geek! I am absolutely content as long as I have my movie collection nearby. My next in theatre movie, is going to be Sex and the City 2, so in honour of the many movie couples we've grown to love, here's a list of my Top 5, in random order:

CARRIE BRADSHAW & JOHN PRESTON "BIG" (Sex and the City): The pair is quite the dramatic duo. They are the couple we all love to hate because they are constantly "on-and-off", they are breaking-up then making-up. In spite of it all, they always find a way back to each other. Let's face it...not even Aidan could compare because after all they have been through, her columns would not have been as successful as they were without the infamous Mr. Big. As much as they both feared the idea of marriage, they needed each other to finally settle down.

~Photo courtesy of www.sheknows.com

HOLLY KENNEDY & GERRY (P.S. I Love You...): This couple really went deeper with the term, " 'til death do us part". Rather than allow his death stop her life, Gerry enables her to move on with his blessing. We all know that when a loved one passes, we try to live life as they want us to, but it is much easier said then done. In this movie, he wrote her letters and encouraged her to date, travel, etc. Her happiness was his absolute goal and he wanted nothing more than her life to continue. True love is evident as he put his own happiness aside for hers but putting an incredible amount of time into his letters.

~Photo coutesy of www.allmoviephoto.com

KATE REYNOLDS & JACK CAMPBELL (The Family Man): Married with two children- this couple is extremely realistic and practical in the sense that most of us can relate to Kate and Jack's situation. The movie explores what "could have been" in terms of career, goals and dreams. It focuses on what Jack lost by settling down with a family but the lesson at the end, shows true meaning of "no regrets" by enforcing the idea of appreciating what you have now. The infamous line, "I choose us", reiterates the life long commitment of really putting your family first.

~Photo courtesy of www.imdb.com

ROSE DEWITT BUKATER & JACK DAWSON (Titanic): Rose and Jack could be viewed as a modern-day Romeo and Juliet by the simple fact that they were on opposite ends of society's social spectrum. She was from a wealthy background and he, from a less fortunate one. Many tried desperately to keep them apart but that just pushed them closer together. What they did have in common was that they were both very misunderstood but they found meaning in each other. When the ship was sinking, he let her go and she came back to him. They respected each other's ambitions and found freedom by exploring together.

~Photo courtesy of www.flickster.com

ALLIE HAMILTON & NOAH CALHOUN (The Notebook): As a young couple with very different backgrounds, they were forbidden to be together. As they were forced to separate by Allie moving away for school, fate led them back to each other and they would not let anything, nor anyone, stand in their way. Not even dementia....as Noah devoted his later years to keeping Allie company and living at her nursing home. He did this in hopes of flourishing her memory. The movie was a great example of how your spouse becomes your life and shows immense sacrifice.

~Photo courtesy of www.flickr.com

I'm normally not one for chick-flicks but every once in a while it's great to be reminded that a lifelong partnership is a true commitment that should not be taken lightly. With the news of many I know who are separating and divorcing, it really opens my eyes to what I am blessed with. If you have been lucky enough to find that special someone, know that you do have to work at it, and it won't be simple all the time.

"So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you, forever, you and me, every day." ~Noah (Ryan Gosling-The Notebook)

Who are your favourite movie couples? Feel free to comment...I'd love to hear from you

DAMASK it up!!

2010-04-06T12:39:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Lately, I am absolutely in love with the Damask pattern!! It is quite evident on my site since I chose it for my background. I am one who is just recently embracing vibrant colours, so until I can completely, I think the Damask pattern is a great way to add a little "spice" (so to say) to those weddings that are leaning more towards simplicity. For example, if you're all about the black and white, or just want one main colour, adding some pattern here and there is a perfect alternative to make your event stand out.

Just one tip: DON'T include Damask everywhere!!! Too much of anything is not good and you do not want your event to look like a Damask explosion or give someone a headache; patterns can be too busy =D

INVITATIONS : You want your invitation to express the style and formality of your wedding. If you want to keep it as formal and elegant as possible, one way to include Damask is by having it on the inner section of the envelope.

~Photo courtesy of www.weddingstationerydesign.co.za

RIBBON: You can purchase Damask ribbon and just use it as an accent while keeping the rest of the invitation plain and simple.

STAMPS/STICKERS: If you want to include the pattern in a subtle manner, try including it solely on the envelope

To incorporate Damask in the ceremony, you can have Damask ribbon or fabric wrapped around the stems for your bouquet.

~Photo courtesy of www.etsy.com

RING BEARER PILLOW : An adorable way of incorporating the Damask pattern is by having your Ring Bearer carry a Damask pillow down the aisle. It will really give your guests a glimpse of what to expect at the reception.

Including patterns in attire is huge right now...

DRESS : Depending on your style, a Damask wedding dress may be a bit much. But if it's YOU, why not right?

~Photo courtesy of www.designsigh.com

If you do not something this loud, you can always find a dress that has a bit of Damask along the lining of the train or just along the bust line.

TIE: The groom and groomsmen can wear a Damask tie. How cute would that look on the Ring Bearer or a Junior Groomsmen!?

PURSE: The ladies know that it is all about accessories!!! You can take an old outfit and turn it into something different and glamorous every time you wear it depending on your accessories. Carrying a Damask purse with your lipstick, compact, or breath mints will unify your Damask feel even more so.

~Photo courtesy of www.shysiren.com

The reception is where you will have to wrap things up and really make it all blend togehter. So, make it as memorable as possible. All your tables, no matter what shape, can have a solid colour with a Damask runner. OR you can use the Damask napkins. However, I would not recommend using both, depending on the width of the runner as it may be too much.

I would also recommend sticking to one set of colours in the Damask pattern. For example, if you choose the black and white, stick to it throughout. Switching to the brown and blue in other areas, again, will be too much.

CAKE: Regardless of how much you want to spend on your cake or how extravagant you want it, if you are going with a Damask inspired wedding, you really should use it on your cake. A cake can go from simple to elegant by adding a Damask pattern to it. Regardless of whether or not you want it all over, you can achieve this modern look by using stencils in specific areas. Speak to your cake designer and see what she/he can arrange for you.

~Photo courtesy of www.cakecentral.com

MONEY BOX: Your guests will not miss your money box if you go all out with Damask on your money box.

As you have seen, Damask is offered in many colours, many differents shapes and variations of details. Stand out and DO NOT BE AFRAID TO USE PATTERNS!

The 4th Annual Wedding Bliss for New Beginnings Fundraiser

2010-03-26T10:00:00.000-07:00

~written by Cendi Micor

WEDDINGS JUBILEE presents the WEDDING BLISS Sale for NEW BEGINNINGS. Here is an incredible event in support of an incredible charity. NEW BEGINNINGS believes in aiding women and children from a state of poverty to self-sufficiency, but the key is to educate them so that they remain well. Denise, of WEDDINGS JUBILEE has been gracious enough to put all her time and effort for the past two months into this humbling event. I am lucky enough to have her as a colleague and friend and ask that you attend this event.

Whether you are looking for vendors, a wedding gown (worth thousands, priced from $90-$350), an intimate fashion show or just want to support a great cause, please save the date April 11, 2010 at the RAMADA PLAZA HOTEL. There will also being amazing prizes to win: $100o towards your wedding bands from ADAMAS courtesy of THE RING BEARER, Honeymoon (accomodation for 2) to the BREEZES Grand Resort & Spa courtesy of SUPERCLUBS BREEZES, a wedding gown from RITCHE and a tuxedo from MOORES and more!!!! They were also featured on Breakfast Television on March 22, 2010- "Ways to Recycle a Wedding Dress!"

~All photos courtesy of www.weddingblisssale.com

For more information...please review the Press Release below:

CONTACT: Denise Georgiou-Newell

pr@weddingsjubilee.com

416-500-6265

-- FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE --

HAUTE COUTURE + HONEYMOONS + ENTERTAINMENT

=BRIDAL BLISS FOR NEW BEGINNINGS

March 22, 2010, TORONTO, ON - What does low-priced couture gowns, scrumptious catering, thrilling entertainment and a free honeymoon mean? For the Torontonian bride it means pure bliss. But for the women and children of Toronto in need of a safe community, food and clothing…it means New Beginnings.

On Sunday, April 11th from Noon to 6 PM at the Ramada Plaza Hotel (300 Jarvis Street ), WeDDings Jubilee is proud to host the Fourth Annual New Beginnings Wedding Bliss Event (www.weddingblisssale.com) – whose proceeds support the effort to raise funds and increase awareness of New Beginnings' programs for women and children.

For just $20 or $25 at the door, brides will step into a wedding wonderland of exclusive, first-class never worn wedding gowns, starting at an amazing low price of just $99. Add in exciting entertainment, an ‘haute’ strolling fashion show, fabulous door prizes and giveaways including a chance to win a luxurious honeymoon from Breezes Resorts and $1000 towards your rings donated by the Ring Bearer, Canada’s premier online wedding magazine. There will also be many vendors on hand to assist with any of your wedding planning needs. You will have a memorable time that will be cherished almost as much as the wedding day itself.

Who We Are

New Beginnings' goal from the very beginning was simple: properly coach, support and encourage young women to successfully transition from poverty to self-sufficiency.
There are 3 main goals for these women once they complete our program.

1) To create a phenomenal life for themselves and their children. This will require personal and social development so they can reach their full human potential.

2) Building safe and stronger communities is everyone's responsibility, learning how to become ‘community builders' and to get involved is the way to ‘give back'. It is the key to community growth.

3) Last but not least, the goal for these women is to create a career not just find a job, so they become self-sufficient. Statistics show that people who are on social assistance who just got a job return to welfare (Welfare Toronto 2001).

Charitable Registration #86472 8225 RR0001

For more information about this event, to cover this blissful day or to arrange an interview please contact Denise Georgiou-Newell at pr@weddingsjubilee.com or 416-500-6265

The Filipino Wedding Ceremony

2010-03-13T09:58:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

As a Canadian with parents from Manila, Philippines, I chose to incorporate my Filipino customs into my wedding ceremony. In fact, it is very common for weddings in Canada to have intercultural traditions since the majority of our population are immigrants. With that being said, I would love to share with you the details and meanings behind a Filipino wedding ceremony.

One aspect that is very distinct is the attire. Brides wear the common white bridal gown, due to America's influence. However, grooms wear what is called a "barong". This is formal attire in the Philippines for men and can also be worn by other men at the wedding. It is an almost transparent shirt, that is usually buttoned-up and has intricate embroidery. Underneath you can wear a plain white undershirt. It is very convenient due to the extremely warm weather in the Philippines, however, can be quite difficult if worn during fall or winter seasons elsewhere.

~Photo courtesy of www.quezoncity.olx.com.ph

The ceremony, which usually is incorporated with a Catholic mass, consists of primary and secondary sponsors. The primary sponsors are couples chosen to be Godparents. Godfathers (ninongs) and Godmothers (ninangs) can be the same ones chosen by the bride & groom's parents during the baptism, however do not have to be. The secondary sponsors are three couples (who are randomly chosen, do not have to be married or dating) who participate with the veil, cord and candles. It is up to the bride and groom to choose but preferably one from each side of the family. Immediately after all sponsors are seated, the candles sponsors light two candles (one of each side of the couple) then have a seat. After the rings are exchanged....

Next is the coin ceremony, the coins are called the "arras". This is why aside from the ring bearer, a coin bearer is also needed in the wedding entourage. The priest is given 13 coins, and while the groom has his hands cupped above the bride, he passes them to the groom, who in turn allows them to flow into the bride's cupped hands. They are then passed onto a plate held by an acolyte (perhaps an alter boy/girl). The symbolism behind this is that there will always be fidelity and they will have a prosperous life. The groom passing them to the bride is significant as he is to ensure that he takes care of her materially.

~Photo courtesy of www.eventsinstyle.multiply.com

After a point in the mass called the Sanctus, the veil sponsors are asked to come up to the altar where the bride and groom will be kneeling. A large veil is pinned over the bride's head and around the grooms shoulders.

~Photo courtesy of www.photographybymonique.com

This symbolizes the male being the "head" of the household or "unity" as they are clothed as one. Once this is completed, the cord sponsors are called up to place a white cord, loosely around the couple's neck. It must form a figure-eight to symbolize their lifelong bond.

They candle sponsors are asked to approach the candles they lit at the begin of the ceremony, preferably the bride and groom's original baptism candles, and simultaneously light a Unity Candle in the middle. This symbolizes that as seen by God's eyes and their family, they are now to live as one. They are also supposed to light the Unity candle on every wedding anniversary.

The rest of the ceremony is conducted as a normal Western ceremony would follow and the same sponsors are expected to remove the cord and veil.

During the reception, it is very popular in the Philippines to release two doves as a symbol of love and peace. This is a custom that many cultures incorporate.

~Photo courtesy of www.chariots4hire.com

Another tradition, that is also used in Poland and the Ukraine, is the "Money Dance". This is where guests line up to take turns to dance with the bride and groom. The DJ is usually asked prior to the wedding, to have a list of songs solely for this moment of the evening. While dancing, money is pinned to their attire. Some couples may choose to avoid this tradition in fear of the "money-grubbing" stigma.

A few other traditions.....

**extremely bad luck for siblings to get married in the same year

**it is not wise to go out or travel the night before the wedding because you may get into an accident

**the groom must enter the church/place of ceremony before the bride

**an heirloom rosary should be held by bride along with bouquet during ceremony

**bouquet should be placed on the grave of a loved one who has passed

Want to say "I Love You" in Filipino, it's easy ...."MA-HAL KI-TA"

Coincidentally enough, this is being published on the same day as the MANNY PACQUIAO boxing fight tonight......good luck Pac-Man!!! Hope you all get a chance to witness a Filipino ceremony. It is long but very beautiful!

Our American Angels

2010-03-04T09:56:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

I woke up this morning and did my routine...turned off my alarm, grab my phone and checked my tweets. I tweeted about how grateful I am to have had a successful new year as a Certified Wedding Coordinator. Then, coincidentally enough, I came across a tweet from WISH UPON A WEDDING. This American organization was founded by Liz Guthrie as she was planning a large-scale giveaway. She came across so many stories of hardship that it influenced her to go out and do something positive.

They are America's only wedding wish grant organization and they allow the opportunity for couples with a life-threatening illness to have the wedding they are entitled to. Regardless of whether or not they have months or years to live, we all need to have our "big day" no matter how big or small.

If you would like to help, you can donate, take donation instead of gifts for a registry, offer chance to donate instead of favours and wedding vendors can contribute a portion of their profits.

So to all brides and grooms out there who are stressing over your planning....realize that there are others out there who are dealing with worse situations. Appreciate who and what you have and, at the risk of sounding cliche, live each day to the fullest!!

14 Things to Keep Your Heart Smiling

2010-02-08T18:46:00.000-08:00

~written by Cendi Micor

Greetings all! This is my very first blog post and I figured I would get into exactly why we named our company "Immortal Weddings". My hubby actually came up with it and once he suggested it, it fit perfectly with our style.

When hearing "immortal" we wanted people to think words like forever, undying, infinity, eternal, always, never-ending, etc. Why? Because although your wedding is one of the most important days of your life, once it's done, there is still a marriage to keep up. This is a partnership that goes beyond your "big day".

So, in honour of those of you who celebrate Valentine's Day, here are 14 tips that have helped us along our 4.5 year marriage so far...

~Photo courtesy of www.valentines.ideas.org.uk

1. Value the simple things

As much as we all love to be showered by gifts, it's the simple everyday things that we do that matter most. How great is it to wake up every morning and have your lunch ready for you? When it's snowing out, it is so wonderful to have your partner clean off and warm up your vehicle so you don't have to worry about it. I knew my hubby was the one when I got home one day to find a single rose with a card attached to it, laying on my desk. I was about to start a co-op position and apparently he called my sister to let him sneak into my room so he could leave some words of encouragement. That moment was priceless! So no matter what, appreciate simple things that constantly remind you that you are on your partner's mind.

2. Be careful what you say when you're angry

Yes, we ALL fight with our partners but how do you fight? Whether or not you have a temper, there are times when we all say things we do not mean. If you need to, walk away from the situation until you calm down. Watch what you say and how you say it because you can't take back hurtful words once you say it.

3. Don't go to sleep angry

This is a TOUGH one. Because let's face it, at the end of the day, if you are fighting about something, especially if you are both hard-headed, you won't always see eye-to-eye by the time you are ready for bed. But you know what? That's okay! You can't always agree on everything. However, with that being said, you should be mature about the matter and make sure that you are civil when you lay down together. Say "goodnight", even if you don't mean it at the time. Is it really worth having one of you sleep on the couch? Will your problem be solved by the morning?

4. Keep dating and go on vacation

At least once a month, especially if you are parents, go out and enjoy each other's company. Whether it's during the day or in the evening, take time to do things you used to when you were dating. It does not have to be extravagant. Also, make the effort to put money aside to vacation together. Whether or not you bring kids, just enjoy time away from reality. Shop, eat-out and have no worries. Not everything has to be routine just because you are married; does not have to be boring.

~Photo courtesy of www.allposters.com

5. Talk and laugh

As much as you do get to a point where things are routine, take time to actually talk to each other. Obviously, you are not chatting on the phone for hours or chatting on MSN anymore, but talk about each other's days at dinner time. Turn the t.v. off and talk or play cards. Reminisce and laugh about memories. Remember just what it is about the other person that made you fall for them in the first place.

6. Money comes and goes

As a couple, finances are a touchy subject and it takes a while to get used to the idea that "what's yours is mine and what's mine is yours". At the end of the day, although you should consult each other, you really should keep your own accounts and have independence. No amount of money is worth fighting over...work on your issues together and you will find a way regardless.

7. You need "me" time

As much as you are a couple, you need to maintain your independence as well. Don't lose a sense of who you are. So, go out and have a girls night or enjoy a poker night with your boys. While your partner is out, unless there is an emergency, there is no need to call and check-in. Give each other the chance to miss each other; you don't have to do everything together. If you live together, enjoy the freedom of hanging out in separate rooms. Do your nails and pluck your eyebrows or play hours of PlayStation without interruptions!!

8. Let the little things slide

You don't always do things the same way. For example, the way you fold clothes may be different from your partner's way. Is it worth arguing about? Be lucky that your laundry is done. In other words, choose your battles wisely. Your relationship can't be perfect so don't nag about every little trivial thing. It's not worth your frustration.

9. Little words mean a lot

Now that you are used to each other's ways and completely comfortable, you should still make the effort to say "please", "thank you", "I love you", and "you're welcome". I bet talking to each other so much, you don't realize how infrequently you use these words. Also take time to compliment each other. It's nice to hear and can make a horrible day suddenly wonderful.

10. Intimacy

Yes, it may be difficult to keep the fire as intense as it was when you were dating but you need to stay intimate. Especially if you have kids, make time for each other. Also means being affectionate...hug, kiss, hold hands. You don't have to be "lovey-dovey" and constantly act like newlyweds or hormone-driven adolescents, but a physical connection is just as important as an emotional connection.

11. Support each other's ambitions

Even if you are not enthusiastic about your partner's career goals, be his/her cheerleader. Try to share their passion and respect their drive. For example, if your partner is starting a new business, give them an evening, without interruptions, and allow them to "do their thing". It shows just how much you want them to succeed.

12. Share responsibilities

It's now 2010 so there should no longer be the idea of " a woman's place is in the kitchen". Yes, I know this is an old-fashioned concept that exists but there is nothing wrong with a man cooking, especially if he loves it. Women can shovel, they can take out garbage. The chores should be shared as much as possible be you are both hard-working and both need a break once in a while.

13. Respect each other's family and friends

Luckily, I have in-laws that I get along with but we all know that many people are not that fortunate. Whether or not you get along with your in-laws, respect your partner and watch what you say. If you have nothing nice to say, seriously, don't say nothing at all. You don't have to keep your mouth shut about your opinions but say it nicely. Also, if your partner has friends you don't get along with (again, luckily I do not have issues with my hubby's friends) be respectful. He/she is friends with them for a reason so trust his/her judgement. I mean, you were chosen as a spouse, right?

14. Surprises!

No matter how big or small, take the time to surprise each other. Whether it's with concert tickets, flowers for no reason or even cooking his/her favourite meal, spontaneity is important.

~Photo courtesy of www.hookedonhouses.net

Well, I'm surely not an expert or marriage counsellor but these things have worked for me so far. Marriage does take a lot of work and effort but hope some of these tips can help put things into perspective.

Take care!